This article was first published on my LinkedIn post – here.
After nine long months of classes, exams, and lessons, I finally did the impossible and got my B Full license, which allows me to ride any motorcycle in Malaysia. It was a journey filled with challenges, but also great rewards. And let’s be real, who doesn’t love a good comeback story? I mean, I only passed on my second attempt.
Now, I know you’re probably wondering why I decided to take on this new adventure at 46 years old. Well, let’s just say I won a motorcycle in a lucky draw and I thought to myself, “When life gives you a motorcycle, you learn how to ride it.”
As an educator with two decades of teaching experience, I was surprised by how much I had to re-learn about learning through this stint. Here are a few things that stood out to me:
- A good motivation really goes a long way on a learning journey. Taking assessments isn’t always the most enjoyable experience, but knowing your purpose really does push you forward. I mean, who wouldn’t be motivated to ride a motorcycle they won in a lucky draw?
- Setting small goals helps. Learning to ride a 500 cc machine that weighs twice as heavy as yourself is a taunting experience. It can be frustrating at times, when you can’t really stay on top of things. My experience with learning how to ride helped me re-learn how to break down the task at hand into smaller goals.
- Confidence comes with practice. Like any new skill, learning to ride a motorcycle requires practice to build confidence. The more I practiced, the more confident I became in my abilities.
- Importance of a good mediator of learning: My first few lessons upon reflection were poorly facilitated. The instructors weren’t attentive to individual needs and they mostly encouraged independent learning. I had to supplement my knowledge with google and youtube videos (this is before chatGPT was launched). But, I am really grateful to have a good instructor that guided me for my add-on session before the second attempt. She guided through the all the obstacle tests again, with clear and concise instructions, a positive attitude, and oh my she is really a much better instructor by far compared to her some senior colleagues. She reminded me how a good teacher can really make a difference for a student and how important it is to have a good teacher.
- “Falling short is just a stepping stone to succes”: During my practical exam sessions, I met several people who were retaking the test like myself. Some of them were even on their fourth attempt. But one older gentleman who I remember in particular, shared a wise perspective with me: “Even if I don’t pass, I’ll just try again”. And I’m happy to report that we all passed on that day
Learning to ride at 46 years old taught me how to learn again. And I am hoping that by sharing this experience with you, it will encourage you to continue to learn, be it a new knowledge or skills, regardless of your age and stage of life. Learning with a purpose will bring new meaning and achievements which in turns enhances our well-being. Plus, you never know when you might win a motorcycle in a lucky draw.
January 11, 2023